I received the news that Rory has passed away during the night early this morning. At first, like so many people I expect, I felt numb. I can't come to terms with this tragic loss. However, I took some time out by myself for a few hours to think it all through.
Now I know Rory has thousands of friends who all wish him well and everyone's thoughts are with the family who have to deal with this loss. As a father myself I cannot comprehend losing a son.
So, after some time to think and feel I can honestly say that I feel relieved. Relieved that his struggle is over. Relieved that his suffering is over. Relieved that his battle has come to an end. I did my share of tears when we found out that the cancer had returned so this time I felt sort of...... numb.
I'm also relieved for Rory's family. They have closure and knowledge that although Rory only lived for 15 years - he gave them his all. He wasn't a couch potato or mean to his friends - he was outstanding and outgoing. A pleasure to know and an honour to be his friend.
For those who dont know I have been teaching Rory at kuk sool won since he was 5 years old. But having some time to think I can honestly say that Rory has taught me more in the last 18 months than I ever did him in 10 years.
He has taught us all how to live, how to love and how to be the best you can be, no matter what life deals you. How you maintain your sense of humour and buoyancy in life knowing you are also planning your own funeral is beyond my comprehension.
Rory has inspired so many people his memory will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace.
1 comments:
that is beautiful and sums it all up.
What more can you say ...
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